Friday, October 26, 2012

Rock On

rock/räk/

Noun: 1.) The solid mineral material forming part of the surface of the earth and other planets.  2.) Rock music


On my best days, I feel like a rock - strong, steadfast, and enduring.  I can withstand any wave and make ripples of my own.  On my worst days, I feel like a rock - stubborn, heartless, and inflexible - more caught up in self-righteous convictions than in being responsive to the needs of others and desires of God.

Maybe you feel like a rock, too.  You might be interested to know that God has dealt with rocks before.  A few examples

- When His people were thirsty, God had Moses strike a rock with a rod to bring life-giving water gushing out of it.

- Jesus' lifeless body was placed in a tomb that was sealed with a giant boulder.  Stubborn as it may have seemed, God rolled it out of the way so that the life-giver could walk out from behind it.

- When Jesus was passing on the torch of his ministry here on earth, he took a rock - Peter, who's name in Greek literally means rock - and made him the cornerstone of a movement that has gone on to give life to countless billions of people.

However stubborn or heartless or immovable you may feel, know that God uses rocks.  He may have to hit you over the head, roll you in a direction you weren't ready for, or put you in a position you are completely uncomfortable with.  But given the opportunity God has used rocks to change the course of history, and given the opportunity He will use us, too.

Stand strong. Cause a ripple. Rock on.




Sunday, September 30, 2012

My Young Hero

Today my hero is a 6 or 7 year old girl I may never meet again.

Last night, Ash and I had a Daddy-Daughter date at "the Taco Bell with the pwaygwound!"  After she hurriedly finished eating, she rushed out to the indoor play structure, disappeared through a tube, and scrambled up into toddler nirvana.  Since the big family that was out there was just leaving, she had the whole thing to herself.  I'm still not exactly sure what happened next.

As she got to the far tower of the structure, she slipped, or bumped her head, or something, and started crying. "Daddy, I'm stuck!!"  She needed to go up or down one stair to be able to get out, but whatever had happened left her scared, crying, and screaming, and she just couldn't muster up the bravery to do either.  Because of the way the structure is set up, I can barely see her.  The area under her is blocked off by walls and fences, and as I stare at the tiny opening she crawled through I'm sure I can't get to her.  I'm staying calm, trying to encourage, advise and negotiate in any way possible to convince her she needs to move.  My mind is racing through as many strategies and outcomes as possible, and my heart is breaking as she continues to cry for help I can't give.

Eventually, I decide I have to go after her.  I squeeze through the hole and slither around an enclosed circular staircase I am most certainly too big for.  I can get half way to her before I'm afraid my next move would break something and make this worse.  At least now I can see her and the one step she needs to make.  But still she won't move; still she cries for my help.

And then, my hero arrives.  This little girl, sent out with her little sister to play, comes scrambling up the stairs.  She seems appropriately surprised to run into me.  I said, "Hi.  Do you think you could crawl over there and show her how to get out?  She's scared and feeling stuck."  Without any of the reluctance I feared, she crawled over to Ash and began to show her how she could slide off the step without getting hurt and crawl back to me.  When Ash wouldn't budge, she patiently switched gears and showed her the best way to climb up the next stair to the slide so she could get out that way.  When Ash, in her emotional state, couldn't even make that happen, my little hero gave Ash a boost up that stair and escorted her down the slide to me.  I will never know her name, and am already forgetting her face, but every time I see a play set I will think of the little girl who saved my daughter.

I think sometimes we view helping others as some sort of monumental undertaking.  But how many of you know someone who just feels "stuck" in life?  Someone who feels like life isn't all they wanted it to be, but they have no idea how to get to their dream anymore.  Someone who feels like life has hit a dead end but they can't figure out how to get back to the last fork in the road.  Someone who is stuck in an addiction they can't escape.  Someone who is stuck between buying food or buying shoes for their kids.  We all know somebody.

Help doesn't have to be monumental.  Take time to listen to them.  Feel their fears and tears with them.  Get excited about their dreams with them.  Maybe you can use financial resources to give them a proverbial boost.  Maybe you can simply invite them to church.

Their Heavenly Father chooses to use us.  He is asking you to help them.  Be listening; be responsive; be a hero.

Sunday, August 12, 2012

Pursuing God

I was journaling the other day and it sparked some thoughts I wanted to share.  Specifically I was thinking about shame, how we deal with our shame, and how God deals with our shame.  I was thinking of Adam and Eve and how their shame caused them to flee, cover themselves in camouflage, and do everything they could to hide from God.  It is God's response (Genesis 3:8-9) that starts the Greatest Love Story Ever Told, and sparked the following ramblings:


God is pursuing.  Coming after.  Calling to.  Searching out.  He is in pursuit. 

He kicked them out.  Yet still He protected them: with a boat, with a dream for Isaac... and for Ishmael, with a dreamer, with plagues, and with rules.  Then, after the people stopped dreaming and the rules failed to serve their purpose a moment longer, He pursued again. 

He came after His people as a baby among them, a teacher in the synagogue, a healer in the hills, and a sacrificial lamb on the cross.  He pursued them to the depths of Hell.  Then He chased away the burden of unforgiveness and the darkness of death in His desire to protect us for eternity.

Our God is a provider, staving off hunger with manna for the wandering and pig slop for the broken, staving off mortality with broken bread and blood-red wine.  He is a protector, blessing the monarch with humility and the martyr with eternal assurance.  And most of all, He is a pursuer, a Father leaving no stone unturned, a Lover calling down every alley, and a Savior reaching to every extreme to win the battle and bring you home to Him.


May you know the feeling of being pursued by your loving creator...

Monday, April 30, 2012

Lessons from Little Red

I was reading Little Red Riding Hood to my daughter this morning and couldn't help but make a couple of spiritual connections I thought might be worth sharing (nerdy, I know).  I am going to assume most of us know the gist of the story of this little girl who goes to visit her sick Grandmother and instead finds a talking wolf in her Grandmother's bed (side note: no one died in the version I read my little girl today - very different from the original, I believe).  The story was obviously intended to teach a moral or two, but I think there are some biblical truths buried in the story worth pointing out.

1.)  We all wander off the path.  In the story I read, Little Red's mother tells her to stay on the path and not talk to strangers.  Yet, when Red comes to a clearing of flowers, she decides to pick some for her grandmother.  This is a choice made with good intentions, and we might even argue it's a good choice.  It's made out of the goodness of her heart and is doing something nice for somebody else.  It can certainly be justified.  However, this good thing leads to her taking too long, letting the sun set, and running into the cunning wolf.  A good person getting caught in darkness, simply because she wandered off the path.

In our post-modern thinking, we get really agitated by all the dos and don'ts of the Old Testament and of sacrosanct religion.  We'd prefer to just focus on the love and do-good-ness of the Gospel and skip over all the rules and regulations.  But the rules are there for a reason.  God knows us and our ability to make the wrong choice and rationalize it until it sounds good.  So He put in place a set of rules to remind us that we are not invincible and need boundaries.  He also knows that darkness can be delivered wrapped in beautiful sunsets and evil lurks behind even the prettiest flowers.  The rules are there for a reason.  How many people get ensnared in bad things simply because they lost their bearings and wandered off?  Which brings up point number two...

2.)  We get ensnared when we don't recognize evil.  As Little Red Riding Hood enters her Grandmother's cottage, she is probably tired and a little scared from her travails through the now dark forest, but is otherwise unharmed.  In Grandmother's bed lies the wolf in Granny's nightie, a paltry disguise for such a different looking creature.  Yet the story says that Red had never seen her Grandmother sick before and thought illness had drastically changed her appearance. The famous conversation "What big eyes you have," "the better to see you with, my dear," etc. ensues.  With each proceeding piece of conversation, Little Red walks closer and closer to the wolf, taking the bait as the wolf intended.  Eventually, if it were not for the heroics of a woodcutter who happened to be passing by, Red would have become the wolf's dinner.  At the door to the cottage she had the opportunity to turn around and run, but she fell into the trap because she didn't recognize the evil she had met just hours earlier.

As we justify and rationalize our wanderings and wrong-choices, we convince ourselves that what is happening around us "isn't that bad."  Worshiping the idols of food, sex, cars, and houses is what everyone is doing, so it can't be all bad, right?  Ignoring our families, taking shortcuts at work, and gossiping (or "venting") are all done in the name of our "sanity," a way to make the ends justify the means.   Ignoring the homeless, health-less, and hopeless because we're too busy or too distracted becomes easier each time we close our eyes and our ears.  One day, we wake up and find ourselves feeling far from God, like the world has chewed us up and spit us and out, and we have no idea how we got here.  Like Little Red, we have choices to make: We have to see that evil must be recognized, named, and abandoned before its kills us with our own curiosity.

Wednesday, January 04, 2012

Mikayla Bragg

There's a sign in my hometown
That displays the names in lights
Of every servant of the flag
Who comes home from the fight
With "Welcome Home" splashed up with cheer
It marks the days, and weeks, and years
As one by one our children come
Back home where they belong

Through rain and shine that sign stands proud
As proud as signs can be
And name by name, child by child
It broadcasts our relief.

 But a new name went up in black today
And that sign seemed nearly bowed
Under the weight of heavy hearts
All across my little town
"May God Bless Kayla Bragg" it said
And it seemed right that it would rain
As the emptiness we felt inside
Couldn't ease a family's pain

Our hero she will always be
A reminder to us all
That peace comes with a pretty price
And our children take the fall


Mikayla, you have fought the fight
Now may your welcome home
Be sung by Heaven's angels
And find you right where you belong